The parable of the Pharisee and the Publican states as the conclusion everyone who exalts himself will be humbled,
and the one who humbles himself will be exalted. A closer look at the story exposes the flaw that made the conclusion inevitable. We’re told that the Pharisee took up his position and spoke this prayer to himself, and that the Publican stood off at a distance. The lack of connection, the break in relationship caused a skewed sense of self. When we come to know other people we find that our common humanity is much more important than any characteristic which seems to divide us. Once the Pharisee and the Publican crosses the floor to close the gap that separates them, genuine humility becomes possible.